But part of keeping secrets is that doing so can damage your relationships with other people. It's not like this isn't going to come out at some point. These are teenagers.
Lying to a family member or to a family member of your romantic partner is a shit behavior. It's rarely justifiable. This may be an exceptional case, but if this were my child, I'd be asking that she consider very carefully whether this is actually that exceptional case, or whether she's letting her genitals do the thinking without thinking about the consequences, both for herself and her partner.
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But part of keeping secrets is that doing so can damage your relationships with other people. It's not like this isn't going to come out at some point. These are teenagers.
Lying to a family member or to a family member of your romantic partner is a shit behavior. It's rarely justifiable. This may be an exceptional case, but if this were my child, I'd be asking that she consider very carefully whether this is actually that exceptional case, or whether she's letting her genitals do the thinking without thinking about the consequences, both for herself and her partner.