And those guesses are almost(?) always character judgements: difficult, picky, flighty, lazy, crybaby, etc.
I got dx'd with ADHD at 33, and my mom just got her dx at 62 (SURPRISE :| ). Finding out that I did X because my brain was wired for Y was so much better than thinking I was just a lazy POS who was doomed to self-sabotage into failure forever.
no subject
And those guesses are
almost(?) always character judgements: difficult, picky, flighty, lazy, crybaby, etc.I got dx'd with ADHD at 33, and my mom just got her dx at 62 (SURPRISE :| ). Finding out that I did X because my brain was wired for Y was so much better than thinking I was just a lazy POS who was doomed to self-sabotage into failure forever.