I feel exactly the same. "Fortunately, you only need the consent of one parent to have her assessed for ASD, so have her assessed for ASD and let the chips fall where they may. Either way, be prepared for Husbando to throw a man-tantrum about it."
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I feel exactly the same. "Fortunately, you only need the consent of one parent to have her assessed for ASD, so have her assessed for ASD and let the chips fall where they may. Either way, be prepared for Husbando to throw a man-tantrum about it."