Yeah like, if your pastor's message is "You should all strive to be pure and perfect like me, and take my every word as gospel, for if you fuck up you go to hell" then him having an affair with a parishioner is a different problem than if your pastor's message is "all humans sin and fail but we should strive to be the good people God wants us to be".

The first one it's a crisis of faith for the whole church, the second one it's professional malpractice.

(also if it's the first one, find a new church, red flags everywhere anyway.)