Okay, the response to this may seem obvious, but I'm going to take a slight tangent. I am always saying that when guys start with the, "Not All Men," they should give really serious fucking thought to when and whether they intervene in situations both micro and macro. I've also said that most men really, genuinely have no idea how much women's lives are shaped by awareness of sexual assault.

Ladies and gentlemen, meet "Jack."

Also, LW, it's perfectly possible to miss positive aspects of a friendship while recognizing that you should in no way rejoin it. EVER.