I say this as a transfem nonbinary genderqueer oddball:
WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK
Look, ma, our transfem identities are not your fucking playthings. We are not dolls clothes you can use to dress up your child in. Your son has told you what he is. FUCKING RESPECT THAT. Do not use kink, gender identity, cross dressing, or trans bodies to sort out your fucked up sense of order - you are playing with fire, and you will get burned, and you'll likely burn everything in your path, too, including your son and your spouse. FUCKING STOP.
GAH. Wow. I haven't been this angry in a while. I sincerely hope this was a fake, because. Ugh. Damn. I need a fucking month long shower now.
LW, can you please take my rage and tell your spouse to STOP NOW? Shut that shit down.
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WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK
Look, ma, our transfem identities are not your fucking playthings. We are not dolls clothes you can use to dress up your child in. Your son has told you what he is. FUCKING RESPECT THAT. Do not use kink, gender identity, cross dressing, or trans bodies to sort out your fucked up sense of order - you are playing with fire, and you will get burned, and you'll likely burn everything in your path, too, including your son and your spouse. FUCKING STOP.
GAH. Wow. I haven't been this angry in a while. I sincerely hope this was a fake, because. Ugh. Damn. I need a fucking month long shower now.
LW, can you please take my rage and tell your spouse to STOP NOW? Shut that shit down.