A lot of rapists don't. It's... a big concern, actually.
But yeah. I don't know what LW needs to do with regards to her understanding of race and/or intersectionality, or what DIL needs to do with same, but LW needs to just tell DIL that she's not able to have these discussions with her. And then, if she's been saying or doing super insensitive things that trigger them, stop doing/saying those things.
Maybe just stop interacting with each other outside of holiday cards? It's okay to do that.
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A lot of rapists don't. It's... a big concern, actually.
But yeah. I don't know what LW needs to do with regards to her understanding of race and/or intersectionality, or what DIL needs to do with same, but LW needs to just tell DIL that she's not able to have these discussions with her. And then, if she's been saying or doing super insensitive things that trigger them, stop doing/saying those things.
Maybe just stop interacting with each other outside of holiday cards? It's okay to do that.