"not lying that playing guidance monitor (delivering guidance notes) might have been the only thing that saved me bc i was basically volunteering for the guidance office and deans so they all knew me tl:dr, play nice with administration so they all know your face and that you're an innocent bean"
That's actually what worked amazingly well for my daughter, TBH!
Not that she was normally in trouble, but it meant that the adults were on her side when a couple of attempted-bullying incidents occurred -- whereas the adults in my childhood/adolescence were like, "What did you do to provoke it?" (Answer: nothing, I really just wanted to be left alone.)
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tl:dr, play nice with administration so they all know your face and that you're an innocent bean"
That's actually what worked amazingly well for my daughter, TBH!
Not that she was normally in trouble, but it meant that the adults were on her side when a couple of attempted-bullying incidents occurred -- whereas the adults in my childhood/adolescence were like, "What did you do to provoke it?" (Answer: nothing, I really just wanted to be left alone.)