I'm just going to say one thing: everyone who thinks that if the genders were reversed, it would not absolutely be seen as the woman's job to take care her older husband, please raise your hands so I can send you a brochure of some lovely beachfront property in southern Illinois.

Fun statistic: Men who are married to or heavily involved with women are six times more likely to leave their partners if they, the women, develop cancer than women are to leave sick husbands. So, yeah. That's fun.