I don't know, I consider telling someone else I wish they were dead quite aggressive in itself, no passivity there. Even if God, Allah or Buddha are brought up in the same sentence too.

What baffles me is that she did that, and their relationship became fraught as a result. It sounds like it's been a while since, but she didn't bother to make amends/cared about the sudden distance. But she still expects to be invited?? Not just that, but recruits the rest of the female workers to pressure him (!) So he's better off dead, but he must pay for her food and drinks at the party, on top of enduring her presence? What a self-serving hypocrite.