I am fairly fitness focused, and I am on team "LW should stop boring her friends." I get it: I've been working really hard at improving my bicycle stamina this past year, and sometimes I want to talk enthusiastically about how much faster and farther I went on my latest ride, because it's an accomplishment that matters to me. But unless that ride involved going an interesting place, it's just . . . not that interesting to anyone else to know that I made my loop ten minutes faster or with one rest break fewer than the month before. I have bicycling friends, and if I want a cheer squad I talk to them. LW would do well to make some gym friends, and stick to talking to her non-gym friends about areas of mutual interest.