Uranus Wars* June 22, 2021 at 2:55 pm I am not capable of policing my own speech to such a level… is why I think Alison’s bit about this making an impact outside of work is so important and why I think OP needs to look sooner rather than later. If you have to train yourself to police your language 40 hours a week to this extent it will be near impossible to turn it off and on. IMO anyways.
Self Employed* June 24, 2021 at 12:28 am Welcome to what Autistics are taught in ABA. If a “normal” person is forced to police themselves that strictly, it’s considered abuse. If a disabled person is, that’s “therapy.”
abuse via behavior policing
Uranus Wars*
June 22, 2021 at 2:55 pm
I am not capable of policing my own speech to such a level… is why I think Alison’s bit about this making an impact outside of work is so important and why I think OP needs to look sooner rather than later. If you have to train yourself to police your language 40 hours a week to this extent it will be near impossible to turn it off and on. IMO anyways.
Self Employed*
June 24, 2021 at 12:28 am
Welcome to what Autistics are taught in ABA. If a “normal” person is forced to police themselves that strictly, it’s considered abuse. If a disabled person is, that’s “therapy.”