Yeah, this one was soooo weird. It’s not even the “this isn’t our culture” thing, which, weird, but you do you.

It’s the joke not landing on colleague. Colleague doesn’t say in the moment, “Was that a joke? Heads up, we … don’t do that here.” Nor did he speak up on her way back. A different coworker overheard it, ALSO did not say anything coming or going, and WENT STRAIGHT TO HR. HR went to manager and they pulled LW into a meeting! The levels of WTFery are off the charts.