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conuly ([personal profile] conuly) wrote in [community profile] agonyaunt 2021-04-15 08:13 pm (UTC)

Throughout our relationship, I encouraged her to take steps towards a healthier lifestyle, but she never wanted to.

Oh, yeah, I bet he was a real saint.

*eyeroll*

On top of everything else, people have this assumption that a limited diet is learned behavior - the parents are failing their responsibility by having a limited diet. However, it's... well, it's complicated. Perhaps Mom has a limited diet due to serious food aversions and guess what - those are inherited!

I'll also note that while "Mom has cancer" is a fairly reasonable reason to have the kids stay with their mother full-time during this pandemic, Judgy McJudgerson had every opportunity earlier to ask for more time, which would've given him more influence over their diet and exercise. Men usually do get more time in custody arrangements when they ask. He chose not to do that.

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