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xenacryst ([personal profile] xenacryst) wrote in [community profile] agonyaunt 2021-02-08 05:04 pm (UTC)

I feel like COVID is a big red herring here.

"My partner continues to guilt me..."

"Things have devolved to the point of weekly fighting..."

"I’m resentful..."

"which my partner interprets as lack of respect"

And the kicker:

"I’m sick of fighting over this and resenting my partner for controlling me."

COVID may have exposed the problem, but the problem is deeper than COVID. There's a distinct lack of understanding, communication, and respect in this relationship. I suspect that if we were to peek inside their house we would find more gas lights than the downtown district of San Diego.

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