I admit I'm WAYYYYYYYY in the teenager's corner here, and I deeply hope the next five years don't make me a hypocrite (if you know to whom I refer, feel free to laugh at me), but.
I really like this advice, but I wish I could ask the LW a few things.
1) What is inappropriate here? That a teenager thinks about sex? That they write their thoughts down?
2) What will punishing the kid accomplish? That they stop thinking about sex? That they gain more trust in you? (ahahaha)
3) Maybe instead of snooping keep cultivating a relationship with your child where you know they will come to you with actual problems? ok that last isn't a real question.
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I really like this advice, but I wish I could ask the LW a few things.
1) What is inappropriate here? That a teenager thinks about sex? That they write their thoughts down?
2) What will punishing the kid accomplish? That they stop thinking about sex? That they gain more trust in you? (ahahaha)
3) Maybe instead of snooping keep cultivating a relationship with your child where you know they will come to you with actual problems? ok that last isn't a real question.