Ohhhh yeah. I've encountered my fair share of "you haven't done it with me, I can do it better, try it" arguments and having to fend those off is kind of a pain. The niceties of how to say "no really, I'm not into doing Thing X or Thing Y for reasons" without offending the other person.

TBH, this is part of why I gave up on dating (not all of it, but part of it). Even if I can find someone who doesn't care that I'm a trans man and disabled, the whole topic of sex is such a fucking minefield for me that it's more spoons than I have anymore. So tired of the "but I can make you come, promise" posturing (and it's not exclusively men who do it, either) and having to coddle someone about how my lack of interest in Thing X doesn't mean I'm not into them, no really.