I've never come out to my mother. I mean, I'm a woman married to a man, and I don't think she really needs to know that I like women, too, unless some specific circumstance warrants it, which I don't really anticipate happening in her lifetime. It's not because I think she'd reject me (she never would have, and in recent years, she's become very strong on LGBT rights). She just wouldn't take it seriously; it would become one more thing she just doesn't think about. So I don't see the point. Literally everyone else in my life knows, and someone may mention it to her, but I probably won't. I feel like she knows me as well as she's capable. We're very different people, and I've had to accept that there are parts of me she will not understand, just as I don't understand parts of her.