Oh, yeah, I don't agree with the "only outside the home" bit. But/and ... that's what I mean by "everyone gives a little". They make sure she's never blindsided by this, and she doesn't draw such a stringent line in the sand, and everyone can be happy. At least, I hope it would work as well that way as it does for me and my friends.

(I hope this makes sense, there's a lot of background noise)