I am so with you. People do things all the time that don't affect others and yet others feel so justified in judging them harshly for -- like the tattoo letter just previous. I find I have more than enough to worry about with those actions people take that do adversely and unfairly affect each other! i don't care about someone being a surrogate of her free will, except to think what she's doing is very generous and kind (but it's not like my opinion does or should matter to her) -- I would only care if she were being forced to be a surrogate, and I would blame those forcing her, not her.

Also, thank you. beams like a little child