Decision fatigue is definitely real. There are some Saturdays when I'm planning the weekly menu that I desperately wish someone would just hand me a grocery list and send me to the store. Deciding what we're going to eat can be as big a chore as the shopping and cooking.

On the other hand, there's something to be said for having the person who cares do the work. I planned the details of our summer vacations and found my son's summer camps in part because I'm the one who, by far, cares the most about which hotels we stay in and which camps he goes to. If my wife planned these things and I didn't like her choices, she would--rightly--be upset that I didn't just do it myself.