I posted this because it hits close to home. I'm opinionated and a planner. My wife is easygoing and very much not a planner. It took us a long time to figure out a balance where I was getting the input I wanted from her and she not getting overwhelmed by me, and we still don't always get it right. I gave up asking what she wants for dinner a long time ago, but by now I think she knows it would drive me up the wall if she didn't offer some solid opinions on something as major as moving to a new city!