WTF, Abby? "This action your husband regularly engages in is assault. Buy different bug spray." The hell?
There are two very serious points, here: 1. Given that allergies, particularly chemical allergies, can turn deadly on a dime, husband is risking the LW's life.
2. Even if the allergy never worsens, the husband is regularly doing something he knows hurts her, physically hurts her. That's a textbook definition of abuse.
She doesn't need to throw out the bug spray. She needs to throw out the husband.
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There are two very serious points, here:
1. Given that allergies, particularly chemical allergies, can turn deadly on a dime, husband is risking the LW's life.
2. Even if the allergy never worsens, the husband is regularly doing something he knows hurts her, physically hurts her. That's a textbook definition of abuse.
She doesn't need to throw out the bug spray. She needs to throw out the husband.